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The bottom line is in two words: I am a young man who is starting my life with what is permissible and I have a respectable apartment, but the terms of the list and the rent and the gold that they asked for made me think a thousand times before I continued. What made me really sad was that my father-in-law said to me verbatim in the seat of the agreement: I am writing you a million pounds on the list because if you think about upset my daughter, I will lock you up for the next day.. Chief teacher, houses are secrets, but I have had enough.. Say the final word that will comfort my heart and improve the state of the house.
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What was Sultan El-Nemer's advice and verdict on this real-life situation: "The bottom line is in two words: I am a young man who starts my life with halal and I have a respectable apartment, but the list’s conditions and…"?
An authentic woman and a brave man are the foundation of any successful home, and understand this: two words weighed in gold: the fair rule in which there is no injustice: the one who gets something with his money is entitled to its actual right, and no one spends on a single pound that has been scratched or bought with it... because facilitating marriage is a blessing, and whoever ties his daughter to an impossible list and furnishings worth millions does not buy security for his daughter, he is buying worries and debts for the new house, settle it. With kindness, and whoever wants to make amends, may God help him 👑⚖️.
How did this family or financial dispute end in real life after following Sultan's advice?
After the person with the problem followed the advice of the teacher, Sultan Al-Nimr, and sat down, the right was returned to its owners by mutual consent and without humiliation.
What did the public audience and elders say about Case #NEMER-H0070?
Over 100 real people from Egypt and the Arab world shared their personal experiences and opinions on this issue, agreeing that fairness, clear written agreements, and mutual respect are the best way to resolve disputes.
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